DRINKING-I-MEAN-REFLECTIONS ALONE

My back hurts, and I haven’t done nearly enough hours of my civvie work today. In my defence, I’m waiting on some feedback before proceeding. But even without that justification, I’m not sure I would have done any better. Isolation has been a mixed bag. Working from...

We all belong to each other

Brene Brown writes about this in a lot of her work – how we are all connected to each other. I’ve been thinking about that a lot these last few days, and to be honest, feeling pretty bummed out by the world.  At first, it seemed like there’d be rules for the...

The Friendship Gap

I was talking to a friend today about how I go about making friends, and it made me realise something with a kind of jolt. That is—my current working life does not lend itself to new friendships. To start with, I’m not a lotsa-friend kind of woman. I have very close...

It’s nice that you listen, It’d be nice if you joined in…

– Ani Di Franco (Face Up and Sing)   I have been thinking a lot about the woman who I want to honour by name, but who’s privacy has already been destroyed in the most horrifying manner. And even after writing that sentence, after all this thinking, I get...

Stuff and nonsense

Pondering, as usual. This time about relationships and sex work.  I’ve always had a fairly down-to-earth attitude about love. I think it’s rooted in my childhood of horses. Every time I out grew one pony, we would have to sell it in order to buy...

Driving, masturbating, and what’s changed…

I spend quite a lot of time driving.  Driving up to my mum’s farm to ride my horse. Driving kids here there and everywhere. I used to love driving. I’d crank up whatever music took my mood, drive places just for the hell of it, and think. (Often...

Writing Sex

Did you know that I write erotic thrillers and erotic short stories? I have just started a blog on my author page, and am now trying to keep up blogs, Facebook, Twitter and my personal life across a confusing number of platforms. If you see me post something on...

What I like…

People often ask me what I want or what I like in my intimate encounters, which is in some ways a terribly easy and in other ways a terribly difficult question to answer.  I could tell you about a date that I loved – I will, in fact! But that doesn’t really...

Hot Sex and Feedback

I have been thinking a lot about mutual satisfaction recently. After such a long time away from sex work, I’m very much enjoying my return. I have met some lovely gentlemen and had some great sex and yet, something has been niggling away at me.  And I think what...

To Be (Out) or Not To Be (Take Two…)

    I’ve been thinking about this a lot since my last blog post.  Thought about it and wrote about and talked to one of my besties (non-sex worker) about it last night…then I felt compelled to re-write it. Damn her. So, ‘coming...
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