DRINKING-I-MEAN-REFLECTIONS ALONE

My back hurts, and I haven’t done nearly enough hours of my civvie work today. In my defence, I’m waiting on some feedback before proceeding. But even without that justification, I’m not sure I would have done any better. Isolation has been a mixed bag. Working from...

We all belong to each other

Brene Brown writes about this in a lot of her work – how we are all connected to each other. I’ve been thinking about that a lot these last few days, and to be honest, feeling pretty bummed out by the world.  At first, it seemed like there’d be rules for the...

The Friendship Gap

I was talking to a friend today about how I go about making friends, and it made me realise something with a kind of jolt. That is—my current working life does not lend itself to new friendships. To start with, I’m not a lotsa-friend kind of woman. I have very close...

It’s nice that you listen, It’d be nice if you joined in…

– Ani Di Franco (Face Up and Sing)   I have been thinking a lot about the woman who I want to honour by name, but who’s privacy has already been destroyed in the most horrifying manner. And even after writing that sentence, after all this thinking, I get...

Stuff and nonsense

Pondering, as usual. This time about relationships and sex work.  I’ve always had a fairly down-to-earth attitude about love. I think it’s rooted in my childhood of horses. Every time I out grew one pony, we would have to sell it in order to buy...
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